Let’s Talk Mental Health: The Gurgaon Literature Festival Focuses on Mental Health This Year

This year, the Gurgaon Literature Festival will be focusing on Mental Health and Illness. Festival director Shabri Prasad Singh, who has written a book called Borderline, based on Borderline Personality Disorder shares some of her thoughts in our email Q&A with The Health Collective‘s Amrita Tripathi. This interview has been lightly edited for clarity.

We also thought to culminate the festival (with a celebration)…We have an Artist’s Ball for our guests and speakers. I believe in the principle that nothing is permanent, there is no such thing as normal and as long as we have this life let us bask in knowledge.

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India is one of the most depressed countries in the world. We have so many issues as a developing nation. We are yet to become an open-minded society when it comes to mental health issues. Whether it is teenagers or women or men, each and everyone of us face some challenge or the other once in our lifetime of mental illness.

To eradicate some of the stigma I made Gurgaon Literature Festival’s theme mental health. It is easy to go behind closed doors and seek help from a mental health professional, but it’s not easy sometimes to accept our illnesses in society. That same society which will ask us ‘what’s wrong with you? Why are you so angry, morose, lonesome?’

3. What are 3 things you want everyone to know about Mental Illness…and do you have any stories you’d like to share? Since your book has come out, and especially since you have been so open in sharing your story, have others also reached out to you?

The three things I want everyone to know about mental illness are:

1. It’s ok to not be ok. We can fall prey to demons of the mind, but with care and maybe medication we can come out of it.

2. It is ok to see a psychiatrist and get help. People often say, “No we dont want to see a psychiatrist we will be stuck forever, we will get addicted to the medication.” However like my father says when my medication tends to make me gain weight: ‘It is better to be overweight than to be psychotic’.

3. Since my book came out a lot of people have reached out to me and opened up about their sufferings. I also give free therapy. I’ve come across many people going through the same things I went through. I give them objective information and ask them to see a therapist.

 

 

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